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Why doesn't he love me like I love him?

To be honest, he may or may not. The question is not why he doesn't love you enough, the question is how do you feel about yourself?
Many problems in relationships are a derivative of self doubt. The key to healthy relationships is confidence, not only confidence in yourself, but also your partner. The first questions to ask yourself are:

•  Do I have faith and trust in myself? 
• Am I making my partner "pay" for my own self doubt? 
• Do I want him to feel bad about his actions or just do a little better?
• Do you feel loved or happy when your spouse or partner isn't around?
• Is your partner reacting,  but not in a way you think is acceptable?

We really need to remember that we are all human. We each have our strengths and weaknesses. If those surrounding us are never measuring up, then the problem is probably within ourselves.

On the other hand, if you are making an effort to love and accept your partner and he or she may not even know you are around, then he doesn't love you enough. This is the time where assessment is needed.

If the fact that he doesn't love you enough, feels better than not being with him, then you accept that he loves you, but may not be able to express the way you would prefer, and you stay.

If deep down you know that he doesn't love you at all, than it is time to go.

Yes there are great guys out there, there are some that need a little education and insight, and there are some that are complete jerks.

You have to be honest with yourself about what kind of person you are and what kind of person he is.

You & Me=We

As time passes, memories are made, lessons are learned & experiences are had. 

Through out this time I have learned many lessons on healthy relationships both professional & personal. At times I feel like Pee Wee Herman running through a crowd waiving my hands around while the rest of the public stares in my general direction with disdain, but I digress. 

I hope that I can answer your questions, provide a solution or comic relief for your relationship problems and help each other improve those connections that are dear to our hearts.